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Self-Mastery is the DNA of Life Mastery

Ishan Jain

 

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“Live every day as if it were your last. Otherwise, you will die with the best you had to give still within you. Life waits for nobody, either you act on life or life will act on you.”

Stop spending so much time thinking about the success of others and start focusing on your own vision for the future. Have the courage to understand that every minute spent thinking about someone else’s victories is a minute taken away from the fulfillment of your own. Stop putting off your hopes and dreams to another day. Stop putting off becoming the kind of leader you know in your heart you can be. Now is the time to make things happen. Now is the time to take some risks in your leadership. Now is the time to test those new strategies you have been thinking of testing. Now is the time to show your people how much you value them. Now is the time to really love your family and commit to your community. Do all those things you have always wanted to do, whether that means learning how to play the saxophone or mastering that golf game of yours. Climb the mountain of life and see what life looks like from the summit. You will see things others cannot see.”

“It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult. Before you can do something, you must be something.”

You cannot be the inspirational leader you hope to be if you wake up every morning feeling miserable and depressed. You cannot guide your people forward to victory if you are being kept behind by a lack of energy. You will not be able to capture their hearts and energize their minds if you are still yelling and screaming at them all day. Remember, before you can like another person, you must like yourself. Success on the outside begins within.

“Love Your Irritations. Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Stop listening with the intent to respond. Instead, listen with the intent to understand.”

The things that drive you crazy are actually giant opportunities. The people who press your buttons are actually your greatest teachers. Be grateful for them. Love them. The things that irritate, annoy and anger you are entry points into your evolution and elevation as a human being. They are signposts for what you need to work on and the fears you need to face. They are gifts of growth. The people or circumstances that take you out of your power have extraordinary value: They reveal your limiting beliefs, fears and false assumptions. You can blame the people who trigger you and make it all about them. 

Or you can do the wise thing and look deeply into yourself to discover the reasons for your negative reaction. Use the challenges to grow self-awareness. Because how can you overcome a fear you are not even aware of? And how can you transcend an insecurity you don’t even know you have? As you begin to shed light on your personal weaknesses and take responsibility for them, you actually begin the very process of shedding them. Shadows exposed to the light begin to disappear. You become stronger. More powerful. More of who you were meant to be. You begin to see the world through a different set of eyes. People really can evolve into their greatness— I see it every day. 

“One of the most enduring of all the ancient laws of humanity is that we see the world not as it is, but as we are.”

By improving, refining and defining who we are, we see the world from the highest, most enlightened perspective. By mastering ourselves, we see the world and all its limitless opportunities and potential from the top of the mountain rather than from the bottom. Commit yourself to excellence. Raise the personal standards you have set for yourself. Strive to do everything spectacularly well. Remember that when you settle for mediocrity in the small things, you will also begin to settle for mediocrity in the big things. And anything less than a conscious commitment to peak personal performance is an unconscious commitment to weak personal performance.

“Stop wishing for fewer problems and start searching for greater wisdom.”

You must stop making excuses for why things have gone wrong and assume some responsibility for a change.

“The Law of Diminishing Intent says that the longer you wait to implement a new idea or strategy, the less enthusiasm you will have for it. I think anyone who has worked in the corporate world knows the feeling of rushing out of a motivational seminar full of great ideas that will change every aspect of his or her life. But then the demands of the day compete for our attention and all our good intentions and personal promises for change get pushed to the wayside. And the longer we put them off, the lower the probability we will ever fulfill them. So the lesson is to act daily on your strategy for change before it dies a quick death, burying your future vision with it. As the German philosopher Johann von Goethe said many years ago, ‘Whatever you can do and dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic.’ ”

Success on the outside begins within. Enlightenment comes through the consistent cultivation of your mind, body and soul.

“The lack of willpower is a mental disease.” 

“If you suffer from this weakness, make it a priority to stamp it out quickly. An abundance of willpower and discipline is one of the chief attributes of all those with strong characters and wonderful lives. Willpower allows you to do what you said you would do, when you said you would do it. It is willpower that allows you to get up at five in the morning to cultivate your mind through meditation, or to feed your spirit by a walk in the woods when a cozy bed beckons you on a cold winter’s day. It is willpower that allows you to hold your tongue when a less-actualized person insults you or does something you disagree with. It is willpower that pushes your dreams forward when the odds appear to be insurmountable. It is willpower that offers you the inner power to keep your commitments to others, and, perhaps even more importantly, to yourself. It is the essential virtue of every person who has created a life rich with passion, possibility and peace.”

“Building self-control and discipline into your life will also bring you a tremendous sense of freedom. This alone will change things.”

Believe it or not, developing the power of your will can erase the worry habit, keep you healthy and give you far more energy than you have ever had. You see, self-control is really nothing more than mind control. Will is the king of mental powers. When you master your mind you master your life. Mental mastery starts with being able to control every thought that you think. When you have developed the ability to discard all weak thoughts and focus only on those that are positive and good, positive and good actions will follow. Soon you will start attracting all that is positive and good into your life. It is just as easy to think positive thoughts as it is to think negative ones.

The question may come to your mind that why do so many people worry and focus on all the negative information in our world? 

Because they have not learned the art of self-control and disciplined thinking. Most people I have spoken to have no idea that they have the power to control every single thought they think every second of every minute of every day. They believe that thoughts just happen and have never realized that if you don’t take the time to start controlling your thoughts, they will control you. When you start to focus on good thoughts only, and refuse to think the bad ones through sheer willpower, I promise you they will shrivel up very quickly.

“When you control your thoughts, you control your mind. When you control your mind, you control your life. And once you reach the stage of being in total control of your life, you become the master of your destiny.”

So, if you want to have the inner strength to get up earlier, eat less, read more, worry less, be more patient or be more loving, all you have to do is exert your will to cleanse your thoughts.

“The person who doesn’t make time for exercise must eventually make time for illness.”

It simply involves making sure that you respect the timeless truth that says, as you care for your body, so you care for your mind. You must have the wisdom to exercise regularly and eat to win. There are 168 hours in a week. Surely you can find a few to swim, stretch or run.

According to a study at my alma mater involving 17,000 Harvard alumni, it was found that every hour you exercise adds another three hours to your life. Now, that’s an excellent return on investment. So what are you waiting for? Now is the time to get into peak condition. It will add so much to the quality of both your professional and personal life. It will make you feel wonderful and give you the energy to do all the meaningful things you want to do. It will even enhance the clarity of your thoughts. Don’t be so busy striving to make a living that you forget how to live a life.

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The words you use influence the life you live. Select them wisely.

Ishan Jain

The words you use determine the way you feel. The language you choose shapes the way you perceive reality. Your vocabulary drives meaning in your life. Please think about this idea. I believe it’s a big one.

“Words affect the mind in a pronounced way. Whether they are spoken or written, they are powerful influences. While what you say to others is important, even more important is what you say to yourself. Yes, I am talking about Self-talk.”

“You are what you think about all day long. You are also what you say to yourself all day long. If you say that you are old and tired, this mantra will be manifested in your external reality. If you say you are weak and lack enthusiasm, this too will be the nature of your world. But if you say that you are healthy, dynamic and fully alive, your life will be transformed. You see, the words you say to yourself affect your self-image and your self-image determines what actions you take. For example, if your self-image is one of a person who lacks the confidence to do anything of value, you will only be able to take actions that are aligned with this trait. On the other hand, if your self-image is one of a radiant individual who is fearless, again, all your actions will correspond to this quality. Your self-image is a self-fulfilling prophecy of sorts.”

“If you believe that you are unable to do something, let’s say, find that perfect partner or live a stress-free life, your beliefs will affect your self-image. In turn, your self-image will prevent you from taking steps to find the perfect partner or to create a serene life for yourself. It will actually sabotage any efforts you might make in this direction.”

The way successful people talk reflects that devotion to being an uplifter and elevator of human beings. They wouldn’t dream of calling a setback a “problem”— they’d call it an “opportunity to create something even greater.” And then, as if by magic, their positive language provokes a set of positive sensations within them that supports them in playing victor versus victim in the seemingly difficult situation. The great ones among us would never express information about an upset customer as “bad news” but instead would label it “a challenge that will help us grow.” Rather than using negative words, they prefer winning words that inspire those around them to dwell in possibility and keep their heads focused on the dream. 

"The words you use influence the life you live. Select them wisely."

“Your self-image is a governor of sorts. It will never let you act in a way that is inconsistent with it. The beautiful thing is that you can change your self-image, just like you can change everything else in your life if it is not serving to enhance it. Affirmations are a great way to accomplish this objective.”

Reciting a series of affirmations morning, noon and night is immensely effective in keeping you-self focused, strong and happy.

They are my faithful companions wherever I go. Whether I am on the bus, walking to the library or watching the world go by in a park, I am constantly affirming all that is good in my world through affirmations.

Written affirmations are also very effective. But I have found that repeating a affirmation aloud has a wonderful effect on my spirit. When I need to feel motivated, I might repeat, ‘I am inspired, disciplined and energized’ out loud two or three hundred times. To maintain the supreme sense of self-confidence I have cultivated, I repeat, ‘I am strong, able and calm.’ You can even use affirmations to keep you youthful and vital.

“And when you change your inner world, you change your outer world.”

Always remember that you must do little things every day to build your character. Strengthening your character affects the way you see yourself and the actions you take. The actions you take come together to form your habits and, this is important, your habits lead you to your destiny.

"You sow a thought, you reap an action. Reap an action, you sow a habit. Sow a habit, you reap a character. Sow a character, you reap your destiny."

I have a little exercise to offer you. Pull out your journal or a clean white sheet of paper and record an inventory of the words you most frequently speak. The more aware you can become of the quality of your language, the more choice you will give yourself. And writing things down dramatically raises your self-awareness. Then, once you have identified your most commonly used words, do another list. Articulate a series of spectacularly positive words that will serve you—words that you imagine a superstar in your field using. Bring them into your daily vocabulary. You will discover that speaking these words will make you feel better. More powerful. More passionate. And when you feel great feelings, guess what? You’ll do great things.

“When you improve yourself, you are improving the lives of all those around you. And when you have the courage to advance confidently in the direction of your dreams, you begin to draw upon the power of the universe. Life gives you what you ask of it. It is always listening.”

I promise you that by practicing these strategies and tools, you will see marked improvements in one month from this moment. You will have more energy, less worries, more creativity and less stress in every aspect of your life. Having said this, these methods are not of the quick-fix kind. They are ageless traditions that are meant to be applied daily, for the rest of your days. If you stop applying them, you will find that you will gradually slide back into your old ways.

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The purpose of life is a life of Purpose !!

Sakshi Jain

 

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Most people don’t give any thought to the nature of their thoughts and yet, the quality of your thinking determines the quality of your life. Thoughts are just as much a part of the material world as the lake you swim in or the street you walk on. Weak minds lead to weak actions. A strong, disciplined mind, which anyone can cultivate through daily practice, can achieve miracles. If you want to live life to the fullest, care for your thoughts as you would your most prized possessions. Work hard to remove all inner turbulence. The rewards will be abundant.

Thoughts are vital, living things, little bundles of energy. 

“Really. A worrisome thought is like an embryo: it starts off small but grows and grows. Soon it takes on a life of its own.”

For the most part, fatigue is a creation of the mind. Fatigue dominates the lives of those who are living without direction and dreams. So your tiredness was nothing more then a mental creation, a bad habit your mind has cultivated to act as a crutch when you are performing a tedious task. 

Often people complains, once their day gets cranking, they can’t even find ten minutes to eat lunch.” “My friend, saying that you don’t have time to improve your thoughts and your life is like saying you don’t have time to stop for gas because you are too busy driving. Eventually it will catch up with you.”

Most of the people have very little control over the thoughts that are floating around the garden of their minds. “The mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master. If you have become a negative thinker, this is because you have not cared for your mind and taken the time to train it to focus on the good.”

Sometimes people make excuse that they are not lucky. What is luck, my friend? “It is nothing more than the marriage of preparation with opportunity.”

“As a matter of fact, part of main problem is that people think too much. Their mind never stops. It is filled with mental chatter — it drives them crazy sometimes.” “What I’m suggesting is different. You need to take time daily to silently contemplate not only where you are, but where you are going. Take time to reflect on your purpose and how you are living your lives, every day. Most importantly, think deeply and genuinely about how you will improve the next day. Daily incremental improvements produce lasting results, which, in turn, lead to positive change.”

“So one should take the time to reflect on their life regularly. Even ten minutes of focused reflection a day will have a profound impact on the quality of your life.” 

“Enlightened thinkers know that their thoughts form their world and the quality of one’s life comes down to the richness of one’s thoughts. If you want to live a more peaceful, meaningful life, you must think more peaceful, meaningful thoughts.”

How can you develop this positive, serene and inspired attitude? 

The garden is a symbol for the mind.

“If you care for your mind, if you nurture it and if you cultivate it just like a fertile, rich garden, it will blossom far beyond your expectations. But if you let the weeds take root, lasting peace of mind and deep inner harmony will always elude you. “As a matter of fact, most good gardeners guard their gardens like proud soldiers and make certain that no contamination ever enters. Yet look at the toxic waste that most people put into the fertile garden of their minds every single day: the worries and anxieties, the fretting about the past, the brooding over the future and those self-created fears that wreak havoc within your inner world. Worry drains the mind of much of its power and, sooner or later, it injures the soul.”

“To live life to the fullest, you must stand guard at the gate of your garden and let only the very best information enter. You truly cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought — not even one. The most joyful, dynamic and contented people of this world are no different from you or me in terms of their makeup. We are all flesh and bones. We all come from the same universal source. However, the ones who do more than just exist, the ones who fan the flames of their human potential and truly savor the magical dance of life do different things than those whose lives are ordinary. Foremost among the things that they do is adopt a positive paradigm about their world and all that is in it.”

There are no mistakes - only lessons. 

The Chinese character for ‘crisis’ is composed of two sub-characters: one that spells ‘danger’ and another that spells ‘opportunity.’ ‘There are no mistakes in life, only lessons. See setbacks as opportunities for personal expansion and spiritual growth. There is no such thing as a negative experience, only opportunities to grow, learn and advance along the road of self-mastery. From struggle comes strength. Even pain can be a wonderful teacher.’”

“To savor the good one must know the bad?” 

“Yes. But I suggest that you stop judging events as either positive or negative. Rather, simply experience them, celebrate them and learn from them. Every event offers you lessons. These little lessons fuel your inner and outer growth. Without them, you would be stuck on a plateau. Just think about it in your own life. Most people have grown the most from their most challenging experiences. And if you meet with an outcome you did not expect and feel a little disappointed, remember that the laws of nature always ensure that when one door closes another opens.”

“Once you consistently apply this principle to your daily life and start to condition your mind to translate every event into a positive, empowering one, you will banish worry forever. You will stop being a prisoner of your past. Instead, you will become the architect of your future.”

“That’s a fair way to look at it. No matter what happens to you in your life, you alone have the capacity to choose your response to it. When you form the habit of searching for the positive in every circumstance, your life will move into its highest dimensions. This is one of the greatest of all the natural laws.”

“And it all starts with using your mind more effectively?”

Mind management is the essence of life management.

Those people who think the same thoughts every day, most of them negative, have fallen into bad mental habits. Rather than focusing on all the good in their lives and thinking of ways to make things even better, they are captives of their pasts. Some of them worry about failed relationships or financial problems. Others fret over their less-than-perfect childhoods. Still others brood over more trifling matters: the way a store clerk might have treated them or the comment of a co-worker that smacked of ill-will. Those who run their minds in this fashion are allowing worry to rob them of their life force. They are blocking the enormous potential of their minds to work magic and deliver into their lives all that they want, emotionally, physically and, yes, even spiritually. 

We might not be able to control the weather or the traffic or the moods of all those around us. But, we most certainly can control our attitude towards these events. We all have the power to determine what we will think about in any given moment. This ability is part of what makes us human.

‘Your I can is more important than your I.Q.’

Concentration is at the root of mental mastery. 

“The moment you concentrate the focus of your mind on a singular purpose, extraordinary gifts will appear within your life.”

“All that you need to perform this exercise is an object to focus on like fresh rose and a silent place. Natural surroundings are best but a quiet room will also do nicely. Start to stare at the center of the rose, its heart. A rose is very much like life: you will meet thorns along the way but if you have faith and believe in your dreams you will eventually move beyond the thorns into the glory of the flower. Keep staring at the rose. Notice its color, texture and design. Savor its fragrance and think only about this wonderful object in front of you. At first, other thoughts will start entering your mind, distracting you from the heart of the rose. This is the mark of an untrained mind. But you need not worry, improvement will come quickly. Simply return your attention to the object of your focus. Soon your mind will grow strong and disciplined.”

“However, this ritual must be performed daily for it to be effective. For the first few days, you will find it difficult to spend even five minutes in this exercise. Most of us live at such a frenetic pace that true stillness and silence is something foreign and uncomfortable. Most people hearing my words will say that they have no time to sit and stare at a flower. These are the same people that will tell you that they have no time to enjoy the laughter of children or to walk barefoot in the rain. These people say they are too busy to do such things. They don’t even have time to build friendships, for friendships also take time.”

“After a week or two you should be able to perform the technique for twenty minutes without your mind wandering onto other subjects. This will be your first indication that you are taking back control of the fortress of your mind. It will then focus only on what you command it to focus on. It will then be a wonderful servant, able to do extraordinary things for you. Remember, either you control your mind or it controls you. “Practically speaking, you will notice that you will feel far calmer. You will have taken a significant step towards erasing the worry habit that plagues most of the population and you will enjoy more energy and optimism. Most importantly, you will also observe a sense of joyfulness entering your life along with an ability to appreciate the many gifts that surround you. Each day, no matter how busy you get and how many challenges you might face, return to the Heart of the Rose. It is your oasis. It is your silent retreat. It is your island of peace. Never forget that there is power in silence and stillness. Stillness is the stepping stone to connecting with the universal source of intelligence that throbs through every living thing.”

Opposition Thinking

“Another particularly good technique for ridding the mind of worry and other negative, life-draining influences is Opposition Thinking. I learned that under the grand laws of Nature, the mind can only hold one thought at any one time. Try it yourself, you will see that it is true.” I did try it and it is true. “Using this little-known information, anyone can easily create a positive, creative mindset within a short period. The process is straightforward: when an undesirable thought occupies the focal point of your mind, immediately replace it with an uplifting one. It’s as if your mind is a giant slide projector, with every thought in your mind being a slide. Whenever a negative slide comes up on the screen, take swift action to replace it with a positive one.

Step one is to become aware that you are thinking these uninspiring thoughts. Self-knowledge is the stepping stone to self-mastery. 

Step two is to appreciate once and for all that just as easily as you allowed those gloomy thoughts to enter, you can replace them with cheerful ones. 

So think of the opposite of gloom. Concentrate on being cheerful and energetic. Feel that you are happy. Perhaps you might even start to smile. Move your body as you do when you are joyful and full of enthusiasm. Sit up straight, breathe deeply and train the power of your mind on positive thoughts. You will notice a remarkable difference in the way you feel within minutes. Even more importantly, if you keep up your practice of Opposition Thinking, applying it to every negative thought that habitually visits your mind, within weeks you will see that they no longer hold any power. Do you see what I’m getting at?”

Picture your self-image.

“The mind works through pictures. Pictures affect your self-image and your self-image affects the way you feel, act and achieve. If your self-image tells you that you are too young to be a successful person or too old to change your habits for the better, you never will achieve these goals. If your self-image tells you that lives rich with purpose, excellent health and happiness are only for people from backgrounds other than your own, this prophecy will ultimately become your reality. “But when you run inspiring, imaginative pictures through the movie screen of your mind, wonderful things start to happen in your life. Einstein said that ‘imagination is more important than knowledge.’ You must spend some time every day, even if it is just a few minutes, in the practice of creative envisioning. See yourself as you want to be, whether this means serving as a great judge, a great father or a great citizen of your community.”

The ageless technique of using positive images to influence the mind. You can practice this method in your own living room or even at the office if you really want to. Shut your door, hold all calls and close your eyes. Then take a few deep breaths. You will notice that after two or three minutes you will start to feel relaxed. Next, visualize mental pictures of all that you want to be, to have and to attain in your life. If you want to be the world’s best father, envision yourself laughing and playing with your kids, responding to their questions with an open heart. Picture yourself acting gracefully and lovingly in a tense situation. Mentally rehearse the way you will govern your actions when a similar scene unfolds on the canvas of reality. 

“The magic of visualization can be applied to so many situations. You can use it to be more effective in your profession, to enhance your relationships and to develop yourself spiritually. Consistent use of this method will also bring you financial rewards and an abundance of material gain, if this is important to you. Understand once and for all that your mind has magnetic power to attract all that you desire into your life. If there is a lack in your life it is because there is a lack in your thoughts. Hold wonderful pictures in your mind’s eye. Even one negative image is poisonous to your mindset. Once you start to experience the joy this ancient technique brings, you will realize the infinite potential of your mind and begin to liberate the storehouse of ability and energy that currently sleeps within you.”

“There is nothing noble about being superior to some other person. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self.”

All I’m really getting at is that if you want to improve your life and live with all that you deserve you must run your own race. It doesn’t matter what other people say about you. What is important is what you say to yourself. Do not be concerned with the judgment of others as long as you know what you are doing is right. You can do whatever you want to do as long as it is correct according to your conscience and your heart. Never be ashamed of doing that which is right; decide on what you think is good and then stick to it. And for God’s sake, never get into the petty habit of measuring your self-worth against other people’s net worth. A famous preaching says: ‘Every second you spend thinking about someone else’s dreams you take time away from your own.’”

Expand your Imagination.

“All success in life, whether material or spiritual, starts with that twelve-pound mass sitting between your shoulders. Or more specifically, with the thoughts that you put into your mind every second of every minute of every day. Your outer world reflects the state of your inner world. By controlling the thoughts that you think and the way you respond to the events of your life, you begin to control your destiny.”

“First of all, begin to live out of the glory of your imagination, not your memory.”

“All I’m saying is that to liberate the potential of your mind, body and soul, you must first expand your imagination. You see, things are always created twice: first in the workshop of the mind and then, and only then, in reality. I call the process ‘blueprinting’ because anything that you create in your outer world began as a simple blueprint in your inner world, on the lush picture screen of your mind. When you learn to take control of your thoughts and vividly imagine all that you desire from this worldly existence in a state of total expectancy, dormant forces will awaken inside you. You will begin to unlock the true potential of your mind to create the kind of magical life that I believe you deserve. From tonight onwards, forget about the past. Dare to dream that you are more than the sum of your current circumstances. Expect the best. You will be astonished at the results.”

Trust yourself & follow your Passion.

Create the kind of life you will be happy to live with all your life.

The secret of happiness is simple: find out what you truly love to do and then direct all of your energy towards doing it. Once you do this, abundance flows into your life and all your desires are filled with ease and grace.

The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your thoughts.

If you study the happiest, healthiest, most satisfied people of our world, you will see that each and every one of them has found their passion in life, and then spent their days pursuing it. This calling is almost always one that, in some way, serves others. Once you are concentrating your mental power and energy on a pursuit that you love, abundance flows into your life, and all your desires are fulfilled with ease and grace.” 

“So simply figure out what turns you on and then do it?”

Once you find your purpose, however, life becomes much easier and far more rewarding. When you figure out what your main aim or destiny really is, you will never have to work another day in your life.

Achievement: Real source of happiness.

“One would think that the less one worked the more one would have the chance to experience happiness. However, the real source of happiness can be stated in a word: achievement. Lasting happiness comes from steadily working to accomplish your goals and advancing confidently in the direction of your life’s purpose. This is the secret to kindling the inner fire that lurks within you.

Main point is simply that when you clearly know what aims you wish to achieve over the course of your life, be they material, emotional, physical or spiritual, and you spend your days accomplishing them, you will ultimately find eternal joy. Your life will be very delightful — and you will come to know a splendid reality. But you must know your life’s aim and then manifest this vision into reality by consistent action. Hindu terminology call this Dharma, which is the Sanskrit word for life’s purpose.’” “Lifelong contentment will come from the fulfillment of my Dharma?” From Dharma springs inner harmony and lasting satisfaction. Dharma is based upon the ancient principle that says every one of us has a heroic mission while we walk this Earth. We have all been granted a unique set of gifts and talents that will readily allow us to realize this lifework. The key is to discover them, and in doing so, discover the main objective of your life.”

I once read that people who study others are wise but those who study themselves are enlightened.

Those who are truly enlightened know what they want out of life, emotionally, materially, physically and spiritually. Clearly defined priorities and goals for every aspect of your life will serve a role similar to that played by a lighthouse, offering you guidance and refuge when the seas become rough. Truth is, anyone can revolutionize their lives once they revolutionize the direction in which they are moving. But if you don’t even know where you are going, how will you ever know when you get there?”

“Stop spending so much time making a living and spend far more time creating a life.”

A simple rule: he who serves the most, reaps the most, emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. This is the way to inner peace and outer fulfillment.

“The beauty of the whole exercise is that as you strive to improve the lives of others, your own life will be elevated into its highest dimensions. This truth is based on an ancient paradigm for extraordinary living.”

The words came from the great Indian philosopher Patanjali. “When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts break their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”

Other Practices

Other practices such as a natural diet, the repetition of positive affirmations or ‘mantras’, reading books rich with wisdom and by constantly ensuring that your company has enlightened.

Last words..

It’s just that there are discovered tools that can improve the lives of many people, people who feel unfulfilled, uninspired and unhappy. A few adjustments in their daily routines to include the Heart of the Rose technique and a constant application of Opposition Thinking will give them the lives they want. I believe people deserve to know this.

This secret is based on the ancient principle that everything is always created twice, first in the mind and then in reality. I have shared already that thoughts are things, material messengers that we send out to influence our physical world. I have also informed you that if you hope to make remarkable improvements in your outer world you must first start within and change the caliber of your thoughts.

When you consistently direct your mind to live in the present you will always have boundless energy, no matter what time the clock reflects. “Only those who seek shall find.”

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Threats to our Health, Peace, Love and Prosperity - Comparisons, Complaints & Criticism!

Ishan Jain

 

We need positivity to fulfil our core emotional needs, which I like to think of as peace, love, and understanding. Negativity–in conversations, emotions, and actions–often springs from a threat to one of the three needs: a fear that bad things are going to happen, a fear of not being loved, or a fear of being disrespected.

These negative feelings seem to come out of us in the form of negative behaviours like comparisons, criticism and complains, then branch out into other emotions such as anger, stress, and feeling overwhelmed.

The truth is, people themselves are not negative; behaviours are. People are affected by negativity, which turns into negative behaviours. 

For example, there are constant comparisons; we might be told how our colleagues are better than us, how they meet their targets with ease while I am always late for my deadlines. Parents might guilt trip how my sister is more caring for them. Spouse might find the neighbour’s wife hotter, younger.  Comparison sometimes, used as a tool for encouraging others to do better in life. So, there is constant comparison between siblings, among peers, with cousins etc.

I believe it’s a complete fallacy, because behind every comparison the implicit message is ‘you are not good enough’. So, comparison is essentially criticism. All that it does is chips at one’s sense of self worth.

Truth is, people criticise to create emotional distance, to feel better about themselves or because they envy others.

Our brains are designed to work to make us more like those that we are around. If we are around negativity, we will become more negative. If we surround ourselves with uplifting people and messages, we will become more positive. 

What happens when we don’t have a choice? Sometimes the negative people in our lives are family members or work colleagues. This makes it even more important to know how to deal with the negativity so that we don’t absorb it. 

Have a open mind, act positive and feel gratitude for the good things happen to you. Positive thinking is that, rather than criticise show people how to do things, show respect or mind your own business. Show praise and empathy rather than criticise.

The next devil is Complain! For example, with parents, it’s a continuous lament about the good old days and how today’s generation is so laidback and useless. Complainers find something wrong with anything. Nothing will ever be good enough for them. It doesn’t matter if someone does everything right, complainers will always find a way to pick it apart. Complainers focus on the negative and fail to see all of the amazing things around them.

When you throw negative energy at another human being, you are hurting him or her, whether you realise it or not. At the same time, you are throwing negative energy out in the universe for yourself. What you put out is what you get back.

Accept that everyone is unique, skillfull, and beautiful in his/her own way. Their purpose of life is different, and we should appreciate for what they are and respect their choices.

Happiness, wealth, love, friendship, health, or success are leaves or branches of Peace. Sow peace and If you manage to find this peace within, you will definitely have Joy. And this inner joy would bring you everything you want in or from your life.

Happiness and peace also come through simple things you love, such as reading a good book, being with people you love, travelling, or a hobby. You can enjoy many moments of peace every day, when you do small, simple things you love and through acts of gratitude. Think about solutions, not about problems.

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Very useful information about Corona - Covers self help tips and home remedies!

Ishan Jain

 

* Blood pressure in the body. *

* 120/80 - Normal *

* 130/85 - Normal (Control) *

* 140/90 - High slightly increased *

* 150/95 - Very High Too Much *


* Oxygen Level *

On checking with Oxygen Oximeter ..

* 94 - Normal *

* 95, 96, 97 se 100 oxygen level very good. *

* 90 Te 93 Oxygen Level Just Less *

* 80 Te 89 Oxygen Level Very Low * Admit should be done on the advice of the doctor.


* PULSE *

* 72 Per Minute (Standard) Very Good. *

* 60 --- 80 P.M. (Normal) Medium *

* 90 to 120 Pulse Increased *


* TEMPERATURE *

On checking with digital thermometer.

* 92 to 98.6 F (Fever) No Fever (Normal) *

* 99.0 F slight fever *

* 100. F to 102 F more fever *

On doing HRCT or chest CT SCAN.

1. HRCT score: 0 - 8 (Mild Infection).

2.HRCT score: 9 - 18 (Moderate Infection).

3. HRCT score: 19 - 25 Severe Infection.


The treatment :

1. In mild infections, normal medicine can be cured.

2. Oxygen and ventilator are required for savior infection.

What does HRCT Score mean?

Due to corona infection, inflammation occurs on the sacs that absorb oxygen, and phlegm in them. Someone who seems to be inferior to another person infield of beauty intellect, etc.

While performing CT SCAN, his score is removed by seeing how many parts of the lungs are infected by doing 25 parts of it.

That is, the higher the score, the greater the difficulty in taking oxygen and the higher the risk.

Take care, and Be safe.


* Home required medical kit for Corona: - *

1. Paracetamol or Dolo 650 mg SOS level

2. Betadine Gargle with lukewarm water for mouthwash

3. Vitamin C such as

Tab Limcee 500mg Sucking 3 or 4 times a day. It is a very powerful antioxidant. It is very effective. Increases immunity. Inactivates the virus.

And

Tab Vitamin D3 60k

Up to 4 weeks a week

4.Tab B Complex with Multivitamin and Trace Elements

Like Neurokind plus

10 to 15 days a day

For immunity

5. Take Steam - repairs throat and reduce viral load and make the virus inactive.

6. Pulse Oximeter to see Oxygen Level

Normal must be above 90

7. Oxygen cylinder (for emergency only)

8. Difficulty in taking the mother-in-law, sleep on the backside, which increases oxygen circulation in the lungs.

Gargle salt in 9 lukewarm water and squeeze lemon in lukewarm water and drink it 3 or 4 times a day.

Do deep breathing exercises.

* Three stages of Corona: - *

1. * Corona in nose only * -

The recovery time is half a day,

It does not usually have fever and this is called asymptomatic. 

What to do in it: -

Inhale steam and take vitamin C.

2. * Sore throat * -

Recovery time is 1 day

What to do in it: -

Gargle hot water, take hot water to drink, take lemon water

If you have a fever, take paracetamol.

Vitamin C, B, if severe.

Take Complex, D and antibiotic.

3. * Lung cough * -

Cough and shortness of breath in 4 to 5 days.

What to do in it:

Gargle hot water, take hot water to drink, take lemon water

Take vitamin C, B complex, paracetamol

And eat lemon with lukewarm water.

Pulse Oximeter Levels Your Oxygen

Keep checking If you have an oximeter

If not, then you buy from any drug store

Or

Do deep breathing exercises to inhale more oxygen and if the problem is serious, ask for a cylinder and a doctor online.

Consult:

If too much trouble, take antiviral medicine physician consultation.


* Stage to go to hospital: *

Of your oxygen level from the oximeter

Keep checking If it's 92 (normal 95-100)

Passes and you have symptoms of corona (Such as fever, shortness of breath, etc.) than you need oxygen cylinder and immediate health check-up, for this contact and consult the service center.

* Stay Healthy, Stay Safe! *

Please take care of your family and society. Stay at home and be safe.

*Pay Attention:*

PH of coronavirus from 5.5 to 8.5

It happens therefore, to eliminate the virus all we have to do is to take Alkaline foods higher than the level of acidity.

Consume substances * Such as: *

- * Banana *

- * Green Lemon - 9.9 Ph *

- * Yellow Lemon - 8.2 pH *

- * Avocado - 15.6 ph *

- * Garlic - 13.2 pH *

- * Mango - 8.7 ph *

- * Tangerine - 8.5 pH *

- * Pineapple - 12.7 ph *

- * Cascade - 22.7 ph *

- * Orange - 9.2 pH *


How will you know that you are infected with the corona virus.? 

1. * Dryness in throat *

2. * Dry cough *

3. * High Body Temperature *

4. * Shortness of breath *

5. Headache

4. Body ache


By drinking lemon with warm water, you can end the virus before reaching the lungs. 

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People are plants? Fun Facts and Similarities Between Plants and Humans!

Ishan Jain

Science is now discovering that humans are in fact more similar to plants than anyone had ever previously imagined possible. Learn how

Science is now discovering that humans are in fact more similar to plants than anyone had ever previously imagined possible. Learn how –

   1.  Plants and humans have a common ancestor. If you back long enough, you will reach a point in time and evolutionary history, where animals and plants didn't exist as we know them today, but they were something else. Actually, we, as animals, are more related to fungi than we are to plants. So, the group animal-fungi connects with the group plants. The fungi-animal group connect with plants around 1.6k millions of years ago, almost at the beginning of the tree. A little time before the group of fungi-animal-plants branched from the archaea group, which split a little time before from the bacteria group.

 2.  Humans share a high percentage of DNA with bananas – we also share 85 percent DNA with a mouse and 61 percent with a fruit fly. But with bananas, we share about 50 percent of our genes, which turns out to be only about 1 percent of our DNA. Humans likely share about 1 percent of their DNA with other fruits as well. "This is because all life that exists on earth has evolved from a single cell that originated about 1.6 billion years ago. In a sense, we are all relatives!"

3.     Plants and humans reproduce. They produce new plants and animals to replace themselves before they die. In trees, sex exists beyond the binary of female and male. Some, such as cedar, mulberry, and ash trees, are dioecious, meaning each plant is distinctly female or male. Others, such as oak, pine, and fig trees are monoecious, meaning they have male and female flowers on the same plant. It’s easy to identify female trees or parts—they’re the ones with seeds. And yet more, such as hazelnut and apple trees, produce “perfect” flowers that contain male and female parts within a single blossom.

4.    Just like humans, plants prefer to be near their children rather than plants of the same species who are not related to them. When plants share their pots, they get competitive and start growing more roots, which allows them to grab water and mineral nutrients before their neighbours get them. It appears, though, that they only do this when sharing a pot with unrelated plants; when they share a pot with family they don't increase their root growth.

   5.   Let's start with the basic structure of any living organism - the genome. The genome is a living thing's complete set of genetic information which it passes on to its children. The human genome is similar to that of  other animals and also to plant genomes. Both the human genome and plant genomes contain around 25,000 genes.

 6.   Inside the cells, we find that human cells and plant cells contain six identical organelles or active components  which include cell membranes, mitochondria and the nucleus. The presence of mitochondria means that both plants and humans have cellular respiration.

7.      Both humans and plants have highly developed immune systems. Plants have a similar response to bacterial infections to humans.

8.    The way humans and plants absorb food is similar. The human intestine and fertile soil both contain bacteria and fungi which help them to be healthy by killing harmful bacteria and breaking down substances to provide food. In the case of plants, bacteria and fungi help plants absorb nitrogen, phosphorus and potassium. In the case of humans, they produce vitamins K and B7.

9.    Both have vascular tissues that serve a similar function: to carry necessary blood or nutrients throughout the organism. In humans, these tissues include blood vessels; in plants they are seen in barks and stems.

10.   A symbiotic relationship exists between trees and humans.  Humans breathe in oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide, while trees breathe in carbon dioxide and exhale oxygen. 

11.  Plants can't survive without animals or humans. Because, Reproduction is essential for the continuation of that species i.e for its survival. For that pollination is a must and should factor. 95% of the plants depend on zoophily for pollination (pollination by animals).

12.  Trees Have Feelings, Make Friends And Look After Each Other Like An Old Couple. Trees like to stand close together and cuddle. They love company. They can feel pain, [and] have emotions, such as fear.

13.   When injured, plants can cry for help via a chemical phone call to the roots. If under attack by a pathogen, such as disease-causing bacteria, a plant's leaf can send out an S.O.S. to the roots for help, and the roots will then secrete an acid that brings beneficial bacteria to the rescue

14.   Plants have exceptional abilities to respond to sunlight, gravity, wind, and even tiny insect bites, but (thankfully) their evolutionary successes and failures have not been shaped by suffering, just simple life and death.

15.   Plants have visual capabilities we just do not understand yet. For instance, as reported in 2014 in Current Biology, the climbing wood vine Boquila trifoliolata can modify its leaves to mimic the colors and shapes of its host plant. Although the evidence for eyelike structures in higher plants remains limited, it is growing.

16.  Biologists believe that trees speak a language we can learn. They speak constantly, even if quietly, communicating above- and underground using sound, scents, signals, and vibes. In fact, the relationships between trees and other lifeforms are reflected in Waorani language. throughout literary and musical history there are references to the songs of trees, and the way they speak: whispering pines, falling branches, crackling leaves, the steady hum buzzing through the forest. Human artists have always known on a fundamental level that trees talk, even if they don’t quite say they have a “language.”

17.   Japanese “forest medicine” is the science of using nature to heal yourself—wherever you are. Trees really do have healing powers. For one thing, they release antimicrobial essential oils, called phytoncides, that protect trees from germs and have a host of health benefits for people. The oils boost mood and immune system function; reduce blood pressure, heart rate, stress, anxiety, and confusion; improve sleep and creativity; and may even help fight cancer and depression.


Twin Flames / Soulmates - A connection that brings soul awareness and enlightens your life !!

Ishan Jain

Telepathy is very common in a soulmate connection, you can pick up each other’s thoughts and feelings straight away. Even if they are apart or long distanced they can feel each other’s moods affecting them physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Soulmate Signs

The first time you meet, there is an instant connection and immediate bond.

It is a feeling as if you have known each other before and there is a feeling of familiarity, an intuitive knowing that you will be together.

Telepathy is very common in a soulmate connection, you can pick up each other’s thoughts and feelings straight away. Even if they are apart or long distanced they can feel each other’s moods affecting them physically, emotionally and spiritually.

The chemistry can be very powerful. There are many moments of complete certainty that they are meant to be in each others lives for a reason, no matter what and of which, there is a higher purpose to be with each other.

Their emotions are always amplified either positively or negatively. It can be incredibly good or very painful, there is more energetic intensity because it is felt at the deep level of the soul. It is common to swing back and forth from reunion to separation. The separation is due to unresolved emotional issues that one or both are carrying.

A Twin Flame / Soulmate relationship always changes your life. It challenges each soul to grow and expand into their highest potential, to fulfill their purpose in each other’s lives and the planet. The relationship could be so intense that one of the twins may go away from the relationship or there may be difficulty in being together for a long period of time.

Sometimes twin flames will experience the “dark night of the soul”.

The dark night of the soul is a very deep experience of inner spiritual growth and soul reflection which involves a deep emotional pain, mental confusion and physical loneliness. It brings a spiritual initiation and can awake a profound shift in consciousness, self growth, self awareness and transformation from the inside out.

Twin Flames can bring out the light or dark side of each other, and can bring out unhealed wounds, as well as push each other’s emotional buttons in a way that no one has done before. When they heal themselves the best qualities of each other will emerge as trust, acceptance and forgiveness. A soulmate relationship brings many arguments and fights. This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within, usually at a subconscious level, comes to the surface. Your twin flame will reflect this like a mirror, you will think it’s them with all the negativity, when in reality it is you. After this the cleansing process begins. Also deep seated fears and frustrations will surface. So you start blaming the other. You may not know consciously but this is the clearing of all your clutter. The arguments and blaming causes a lot of confusion because this spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, conditioned to trust logic more than the feeling of the heart. Usually one of them will run away because they feel they’re losing control and remember from the subconscious, past hurts of abandonment, betrayal, abuse, control and mistrust.

The one that was left suffers in pain / shock and hurt of the unexpected behavior and cutting off of their loved one. In this phase they both will need their own space to heal themselves. They both need to understand what really is happening, so they might start reading, searching or looking for answers.

Their soul goes into shock leading for one of them to become enlightened through a conscious effort, ultimately the person that went away returns after a soul awareness and deep recognition from their intuitive heart and the karma is finally resolved.

This is when the split soul becomes one again. First it happens at the level of the soul and then on the physical level, that is when they get married. In rare cases the physical reunion is not part of the plan and they will attract the next soul mate. This time the next soul mate will be a complete soulmate, one that has gone through all this experience and it will be an eternal bliss of love.

The purpose of a soulmate relationship is to assist us in our awakening and self love. It is always the case. We have met our soulmate in a previous life and have experienced many lives together. Before we enter the next life we agreed to meet again to heal our karmic patterns and our past wounds.

Our pain, fears, loss, betrayal, abandon, self worth.

Soulmates can be the catalyst needed to affect positive changes.

We have loved each other so deeply in previous lives that we volunteer to meet again to heal each other.

Twin Flames / Soulmates are always connected energetically in the heart and on a soul level.      

CONNECTION AND SIMILARITIES

They often have similar beliefs and positive morals and values.

A indication of soulmates is that they might have a strong interest in helping others or a purpose to help humanity in a profound way. It is quite common for them to like the same things in life as you. They may have the same interest, passions and talents to fulfill their soul. Personality traits could be very similar even if they don’t recognize it yet.

The soulmate connection may not make complete sense on a mental level but they will sense it through the heart. Your Twin Flame / Soulmate will force you to search deeper into yourself than ever before. To lay everything on the table. You won’t be able to hide anything as your twin flame can read your soul.

SIGNS THAT YOU HAVE MET YOUR SOULMATE

Ø  An overwhelming sense of love and attraction.

Ø  A very strong magnetism to the other, stronger than anything you have experienced.

Ø  You will complement one another.

Ø The ability to feel each other emotions, whether they be happy or sad ones, from great distances.

Ø  The desire to be with one another no matter what obstacle is blocking your way.

Ø  You may meet through unusual circumstances that were totally unplanned and unexpected.

Ø  A realization that this isn’t the first time the two of you have met (past lives).

Ø  It feels as though you have been awakened. You feel more alive than you ever felt.

Ø  Your conversations seems to go forever and there is nothing you can’t discuss with your twin flame / soulmate.

Ø  You laugh constantly with each other.

Ø  You feel the need to please each other.  

RESOLUTION AND RE-UNION

Before you can live in harmony and unconditional love with your twin flame, emotional and mental healing needs to take place. You must work on your karma. You must heal all of your unresolved past experiences in this life and past lives. A negative comment or action toward your partner will only hurt yourself. Remember the two of you are connected.

One must transcend the ego and learn and understand unconditional love to oneself and others. To let go of a codependency or ego based relationship. Have no need for the other to make you whole or complete, as you are already whole and complete although you may not realize it yet but as you evolve you will awake to this self realization.

When you both have healed negative emotions, you won’t compete with one another. You will love each other for your individuality and uniqueness.

There will not be any restrictions within the relationship. All is freedom without the need for ownership or control. The reunion happens when both are fully aware of their spiritual reality and enlightened at this time. There is perfect love and harmony. The twin flames now enjoy their sacred love and intimacy and have the power to create what their heart desires.

Note – If you want a loving relationship, don’t look for someone to make you happy. It doesn’t work. A partner might enhance love towards you, but you will still need to be ok with who you are. You need to be secure in yourself, know your worth and have your own way of rising above the challenges of life with certain emotional maturity.

I was told telepathically that sexuality has a major purpose to reconnect the twin souls and physical attraction is a big factor in each being reexamining and healing themselves. Finally in the end, all of us will be reunited with our twin flames whether it be in this life or the next one, depending on each other’s growth.

It is being told that the purpose of each human being was to find their soulmate / twin flame and will take place when each human being has found themselves.