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"Dreams to Reality: The Power of Affirmations"

Ishan Jain

How Affirmations and the Subconscious Mind Help Make Your Dreams a Reality

Understanding the Power of Positive Thinking!!

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to achieve their dreams effortlessly? The secret often lies in the power of affirmations and the subconscious mind. Let's break down how these tools can help you turn your dreams into reality.

What Are Affirmations?

Affirmations are positive statements that you repeat to yourself regularly. They are designed to influence your mind and change your beliefs. For example, saying "I am confident and capable" can help build your self-esteem and encourage you to take on new challenges.

How Affirmations Lead to Desire

When you start using affirmations, they plant seeds of desire in your mind. These desires grow stronger the more you reinforce them with affirmations. For instance, if you keep telling yourself, "I will achieve my goals," this belief will become a strong desire over time.

From Desire to Action: The Journey

1. Strong Desire Leads to Research: When your desire is strong, you'll naturally start looking for ways to achieve your goals. This might involve reading books, taking courses, or asking for advice from experts.

2. Research Leads to Knowledge: As you gather information, you gain knowledge. This knowledge equips you with the tools and strategies needed to move forward.

3. Knowledge Opens Up Opportunities: With the right knowledge, you'll start to see opportunities that you might have missed before. These opportunities can help you take significant steps toward your dreams.

4. Persistence is Key: Even if you face setbacks, don't give up. Keep trying and give your best effort. Persistence is often the difference between success and failure. One day, all your hard work and dedication will pay off.

Making Affirmations Effective

To get the best results from your affirmations, you need to follow a few simple steps:

Be Specific and Time-Bound

Make sure your affirmations are specific and have a timeline. Instead of saying, "I will be successful," say, "I will achieve my sales target by the end of this month." This clarity helps your subconscious mind focus on a clear goal.

Repeat Daily

Consistency is crucial. Repeat your affirmations every day, preferably in the morning and before bed. This regular practice helps reinforce the positive message in your mind.

Can Affirmations Overcome External Factors?

While affirmations can't control external events, they can influence how you respond to them. By staying positive and believing in yourself, you can navigate challenges more effectively. Affirmations help you maintain a positive mindset, which can be a powerful tool in overcoming obstacles.

Stay Positive

Affirmations can act as a buffer against negativity. By focusing on positive thoughts, you can reduce the impact of external factors and stay motivated to pursue your goals.

Conclusion

Affirmations and the subconscious mind play a significant role in making your dreams a reality. By reinforcing positive beliefs, you can cultivate a strong desire, gain knowledge, and seize opportunities. Remember, persistence and a positive mindset are key. Keep believing in yourself, and you'll be well on your way to achieving your dreams.


 

Track Your Progress

Ishan Jain

 Track Your Progress

"You will not pass in Math" my teacher said pointing his finger at my friend, Rishika who managed to score just about 45 in the mid-term exam. She was hurt...very hurt, and in the heat of the moment swore to score a PERFECT 100 in the final Math exam. She worked hard, gave up watching Shaktiman & Swabhiman (2 iconic serials back in the 90s) and she even gave up lagori (an iconic street game in the 90s) and Super Mario too (an iconic video game in the 90s) and focused only on Math. The results were out, and she had scored 92. What do you think she felt?

She was disappointed, depressed, and devastated. Does this sound familiar?!?!

We live in a world where perfection is worshipped. Perfect marks, Perfect Service, Perfect Movie, Perfect piece of writing, and the list goes on. People who worship perfection are called perfectionists. They suffer terribly for imposing unrealistic standards on themselves. This puts a lot of pressure on not only them, but others as well.

Everybody is a perfectionist to some degree. It's when it becomes an obsession that it's a problem.

My sister too was a victim of perfection, especially after her children were born. She wanted to be the perfect mother. She made a "perfect" schedule for their eating, playing, napping, studying, bed time, potty time etc., and did not give room for any flexibility in the schedule. She was so rigid and fixated on becoming the perfect mother with perfect schedule that she dragged them to the park, walked then, here, there, and everywhere even when they weren't up to it. As a result, her children felt suffocated in her presence, laughed less and did not crack jokes anymore. She had killed their creativity too, they stopped doodling on each other's face and behaved more like robots adhering to her schedule. There is nothing more hurtful for a mother than to know that her children have stopped connecting with her. She made her children's lives, and her life too... miserable in the pursuit of perfection.

And, one day it all changed when She was cleaning her husband's cupboard. (that's the beauty of being a woman, even when things aren't going well for her, she still wants to clean the cupboards) and She found Winston Churchill's picture with a quote " Perfection is the enemy of Progress!" Churchill said that and the old chap... was he right!

She immediately confronted her husband and asked him for an explanation to which he said, "If you want joy and a stress-free life, never aim for perfection, instead track your progress." That statement changed her world.

She dint know whom to thank, her husband or Churchill...She thanked Churchill!

Despite leaping from an average 50 to a whopping 92, my friend Rishika had failed to see her progress and did not value her achievement.

I too had failed to see my own progress from where I was to where I'm now.

Tracking my progress has helped me grow positively. I've exchanged perfection for fun and it's the best deal I've made in my life.

What about You?

Are You willing to track your progress instead of tracking that mythical destination called Perfection? It's never late because:

Tracking your progress builds your confidence.

Tracking your progress motivates you to achieve more.

Tracking your progress increases your Self worth.

It matters not where you are...here & now. What matters is where you have come from...and where you are going!